firstly i want to thank all of those who answered honestly and shared their views of my last post.
what was it again?
yes, ze white or ze black, which did you zee firzt.
if you saw white first, that means
you see a new person as a blank page where they are as white as the paper.
you see the goodness of a person rather than looking for the opposite.
that's good! but when you see that black dot, which represents a bad side of a person, what would you do?
if you saw the black dot first, that means
you look for the bad side of a person first.
you're not open when meeting new people because you are careful.
that's good too! means you analyse before you trust!
but now that you see the bad side of a person, would you try to learn the good side of them?
that's why i said there's no right or wrong answer.
you can't help seeing what you saw first. takkan you macam "hmmm. i rasa nak nampak black dot first." that doesn't make sense!
but here is where you are able to choose.
let's say you're best friends with A, and he/she did 1 mistake, would you still love him/her the way you used to?
let's say you just met A, and you saw him/her at their worst time. would you want to try and learn about him/her?
what would you do?
the real question is not what you saw first, but how you react to it.
i too saw the black dot first. but im not the kind that doesn't like a person immediately.
when i see the 'ugly truth' of a person, then i know where not to thread when im with them.
so that's all i want to share really. i'm no psychiatrist, so i can't really explain into detail about this. i did this pun so that we probably can learn something about ourselves. even if it's just a small insignificant thing.
nobody's perfect, and mistakes are probably our 2nd best friend.
if you're open enough to accept other's mistakes, then when you make a mistake, insyallah orang pun can still accept you.
=)
tu jeeeee!!
hehe!